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Is it cheap? LOL, no. But it is so, so worth your coin, promise. This naturally moisturizing oil-based serum is made with traditional botanicals like maca, damiana, and spilanthes acmella that'll have you lubricated and stimulated in no time. Even a few lil drops can take you to a next-level orgasm. And no matter the ingredients in the product you choose, Eisman adds that the actual process of applying a product can also help with arousal. Squirt some product on yourself or put on a blindfold and let your partner go for it. "A sensual application in itself can be an act of foreplay," explains Eisman. "Get lost in the feeling and commit yourself fully to pleasure. Touching and penetration will be felt more intensely, and when you climax, you'll come long and strong." Whether this means you spend some time engaging in a lil self-care or you put your partner in charge, the act of simply getting the goods on your skin is M-A-J-O-R-L-Y erotic.
THE REVIEW:" On first application Arouse feels just like an oil, but within about a minute a tingling and warming sensation occurs, like champagne bubbles of sensation," one buyer describes. "It's amazing for an increased sexual experience...but a little goes a long way! Only a few drops, not even a full pump works for me! Definitely awesome for a more elevated intimate encounter." Also remember, these products aren’t meant to be used internally, like lubricant. Less is more when it comes to arousal gels. And make sure to read the instructions to see if the gel is safe to be used on sex toys and with latex condoms. Lincoln warns people to be careful when applying products around the vulva, though, since it is a sensitive area. Read the label to see if there are any parabens or fragrances you might be allergic to. Even if not, test the gel on a not-so-sensitive body part first so you can assess for any kind of reaction. If you use an arousal gel and notice any itching, rashes, change in vaginal discharge, or other medical concerns, stop usage immediately.Monica Grover, DO, MS, is a double board-certified gynecologist at VSPOT Medi Spa, a sexual health spa in New York, NY. IF YOU'VE had sexy time with someone who has a vulva, you've most likely put some tender loving care into stimulating their clitoris. During sexual arousal, the clitoris swells up and looks like a small nub at the top of the vulva, right where the inner labia touch. But it’s actually much bigger than that, extending to around five inches internally. This “ pleasure center” has about 8,000 nerve endings, which is almost twice as many as the penis.
Tamika K. Cross, MD, FACOG, is a board-certified ob-gyn at Serenity Women's Health & Med Spa in Pearland, TX. Taylor Sparks is an erotic educator and founder of Organic Loven and the Sisters of Sexuality Collective.Brandye Wilson-Manigat, MD, is a board-certified ob-gyn based in South Pasadena, CA, as well as the author of My O My!: A Committed Woman's Guide to Getting the Great Sex She Deserves. So how do sex gels work, you ask? According to Organic Loven and Sisters of Sexuality Collective founder Taylor Sparks (who's also an erotic educator), arousal gels help to open your blood vessels, which then increase oxygen delivery and blood flow to the genitals. "This increases sensitivity and vaginal secretions to intensify orgasms," she explains. Think wetter, more sensational climaxes that are much easier to achieve—love that for you. As for where the stuff actually goes, co-CEO and co-founder of Her Highness, Laura Eisman, says to apply the arousal gel around the labia, clitoris, and inside the vagina to get the full effect. She also adds that if you accidentally put too much on, wash it off with some warm water and a mild (preferably unscented) soap, and add a little coconut oil if it's available to help soothe your skin.
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