His Needs, Her Needs: Building an Affair-Proof Marriage

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Women have traditionally been regarded as people who need a lot of emotional support and care in relationships. This is because they’re typically more sensitive than men and often have a harder time dealing with stress and emotional trauma. There’s always something to know about her that you don’t know. Focus on what the other is feeling, thinking and doing. Should be personal. What To Do When Your Spouse Says: I Dont Love You Anymore! Keep Your Spouse From Bolting & Buy Time To Improve Your Marriage. Hug and kiss me every morning while we’re still in bed. • Talk with me and tell me that you care about me while we’re having breakfast together. • Hug and kiss me before you leave for work. • Call me during the day to see how I’m doing and to tell me you care about me. • After work, call me before you leave for home, so that I can know when to expect you. • When you arrive home from work, give me a hug and kiss and spend a few minutes talking to me about how my day went (I’ll talk to you about how your day went too). • Help me with the dishes after dinner. • Hug and kiss me for at least five minutes when we go to bed at night and tell me that you care about me. • Bring me flowers once in a while as a surprise (be sure to include a card that expresses your care for me). • Remember my birthday, our anniversary, Christmas, Mother’s Day, and Valentine’s Day. Give me a card and gift that is sentimental, not practical. Learn how to shop for me. Under the heading “Affectionate Habits to Avoid,” she wrote: • Don’t tell me how attracted you are to my body when you want to express your affection. • Don’t touch my butt, breasts, or crotch when you are being affectionate with me (especially when we are washing the dishes together). Ted could understand what Paula meant in her list of “Affectionate Habits to Create.” And he was willing to try to learn to be more affectionate by practicing those behaviors until they became habits. But he was confused, and somewhat offended, with her entries in “Affectionate Habits to Avoid.” “Don’t you want me to tell you how sexy you look to me? You turn me on, and I’m just following my instincts,” he admitted. “I want to be attractive to you,” she replied. “But when we’re together, you seem to be interested only in my body. It makes me feel that you don’t care EVEN if the statement is literally true and can be applied both ways, the wording is CLEARLY rooted in sexist and regressive ideas.

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Honesty and openness. He tells her everything about himself, leaving nothing out that might later surprise her. He describes his positive and negative feelings, events of his past, his daily schedule, and his plans for the future. He never leaves her with a false impression and is truthful about his thoughts, feelings, intentions, and behavior.The wording that sex is as important as the air that person breathes. This is not used to describe any of the other needs. For the partner who has a lot of hurt around the act of sex (as there tends to be a lot of brokenness here) can you imagine the pressure this puts on the spouse working through sex? Can you imagine the entitlement this may give the partner with the high sex drive? Language is so important, and I feel this could be triggering. Also, if it is as important as the air that person breathes, it is so odd that so many people in adult life are living without air. This sounds sarcastic, but I say it to point out that not only does this language bring hurt within a marriage, but is a little crazy when you think about it in terms of those who are single or living in abstinence

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Ladies, if you are having an issue with this particular need, I ask you to be honest. When you go out on a date with your man to a special place, don’t you like it when he cleans up, shaves, and puts on a nice set of freshly pressed clothes? Doesn’t it make you feel special that you are with such a handsome man?

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A very practical "how-to" book & audio from relationship coaches Susie & Otto Collins that you will love because it gives you 101 words, phrases & sentence starters to help you say it right every time. Today, women are far more independent than they ever have been. The actual need for a man is less than it ever has been. Many women earn more than their male spouse. Even if that is the case, what are the expectations? Women tend to like a man that can provide, or at least participate financially. Assign the remaining tasks. Both partners agree to who will do what and when they are to be completed. As I said earlier, women can also have very high sex needs. Sometimes, it is the woman who is the sexual aggressor in a marriage. That is OK.